First off let start by saying Good Morning as it’s 11:05am. There has been a lot going on in my life these past few months hints “it’s been a while…” As you all know that have been reading my blogs or if you are new I write to help encourage those who have been or are experiencing something that I have overcame but I also write in the mist of what I am going through as well so you know that I go through things and have emotions has well and to see if you have any suggestions and ideas that I could use and apply in my life. So with that being said without further or do let’s get the jewels….
Everyone you think you friend is not your friend no matter how much you tell yourself they would never do this or they will never say that. This is a hard lesson that I had to learn. It almost destroyed my entire family and close love ones. If you have experienced anything like this please feel free to share in the comments below I would love to connect. It’s been a while since I been on this journey I have someone in my life pretend to be my friend they was there when I went through something I thought was my worst was one of the worst things you could have been through just to come to terms that they was the one that set up the whole situation. Can you say the ultimate hurt I was hurt and crushed. The sad part about it is that I allowed it and that’s where it cuts deep.
Have you ever been betrayed by someone you thought was your right hand man your best friend? I must say when I discovered this news I was lost for words because I ended some real good relationships because of this person that I had allowed to come into my life and tell me all kinds of lies on those who have been there for me through thick and thin. I never even seen it coming and they knew that and took straight advantage what a friend right! Now I’m here with all this new information there is some much I want to do and say so much I feel on the inside sitting here wondering how do I go about this now?
At the end of the day people are going to be people meaning that a person is going to be who they are and you have to understand once you realize that you will be able to handle things a lot better. It won’t be easy but you will be able to handle it in a much mature way. Take the time to pray and give the situation over to The Lord he knows all things and he will be able to heal you take away the pain and handle the situation in a way that you won’t have to worry and that’s better than you taking things into your own hands. Jesus has a master plan but you just have to go to him and wait to hear from him he will let you know everything you need to do and more. Praise The Lord!!!! In that time that you wait on The Lord take that time in praising him for what he’s getting ready to do in advance. Have faith stay in the word and pray for that person and forgive them. Now I know what you may be thinking like forgive them did you just say forgive them and the answer is yes forgiveness is not for them but it’s for you. They already done enough in your life don’t let them have control over your life. If you want to know how to get over a betrayal or how to forgive check out this blog I wrote.
I learned a valuable lesson from this situation and I will list them below.
- Always keep your eyes and ears open.
- Pay attention to signs and red flags.
- Stay in prayer with The Lord so he can show you and guide you ahead of time.
- Get proof and facts on information that others give no matter who it maybe.
These are some of the lessons I learned from this if you have been through a situation similar please share below.
Where there’s a will, there’s a jewel.💎